System-vector psychology. Problem parent and adult child, or Why kids hate their parents?
  All people, beginning in adolescence, experiencing mixed feelings of rejection by parents. We want to be free and this desire sometimes comes right still to hate the people who…

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How to cope with children's tears
Many women prefer to teach children mind shouting, prohibitions, even a spanking, being confident that their child will cease, at last, to misbehave. But, actually, such methods can hardly achieve…

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The intrinsic value. Love of self. Faith in yourself. Hope. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Conditional self-acceptance. Conditional acceptance of yourself. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Self-sufficiency and dependence.

The intrinsic value is sensual (emotional) relation of man to himself, emotional acceptance/rejection itself..

Worth begins in childhood emotional attitude of parents to the child.

The value can be of four types: unconditional acceptance, conditional acceptance, conditional acceptance of yourself, unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Unconditional acceptance of yourself includes:

When the child was brought up in the conditions of unconditional love, care, trust, security, he formed the unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Unconditional love (the love regardless of their actions, qualities, past, etc. – the man loves himself the way he is) . The man who certainly loves himself not to be ashamed of any of his negative qualities, and not be proud of the positive. It positively refers to itself regardless of various conditions (successes-failures, advantages, disadvantages, etc.). It is independent of the acceptance-rejection myself other (I love myself no matter, love or no love around me). With unconditional love, a man committed to change, as Hoca

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How to start a relationship with the opposite sex?

 

What is the secret of building good sustainable home? The secret is in the correct the beginning – the Foundation. A house without a basement in a couple of rain drops. Built the walls is not something to stand on, they will crack and start the movement. Alas, the moving wall is a bad thing for a good home.

As builders, we also must know the importance of the beginning of building relationships. At random the Foundation pour is not necessary, you must cedola themselves to decide what kind of relationship will build. Despite the desired relationship, it is very important to set a goal that you are pursuing.

When we consider the different relationships and how to incinnati, we define exactly what it means every interaction (if friendship, we are only talking about friendship here and no other senses do not play).

How to start to be friends?

“A friend is known in trouble” let’s take this phrase as the basis. Never try to become your friend and keep them. Do not impose your friendship because it would be similar to the prosecution and would be very annoying to your friend. Be yourself, live your life, but wonder about life and the person for whom you want to become a friend. If possible, Continue reading

What skills should your child in 3 years?

 

Congratulations, you survived the “terrible turning age three!” Let’s hope that you will have enough understanding and energy to enjoy what is ahead of you and your preschooler. Psychologists call the age of three years and the next few years, the “magic age” – in part because now, as if by magic, your child finally learned to listen to you, and partly because this time the rapid development of your child. What skills should a child in 3 years?

Child at 3 years – height and weight

At this age the child is not as active as before. And yet, in 3 years the girls are gaining weight from 13 kg to 16 kg 700 grams. Boys can weigh from 13, 7 kg to 16 kg 100 grams. If the child’s weight falls short of these figures or a little more, do not worry. Worse, if the child’s growth is irregular: in one month he is rapidly recovering, then just as quickly lose weight. Then you need to consult an endocrinologist.

The growth of the child in 3 years varies from 90 cm to 1 meter. The boys are growing slightly faster than girls.

The child in 3 years it is better to grow and develop, you need to respect their sleep and rest. 3 years old baby should not sleep less than 11 hours at night, went to bed no later than 21.00. NAPs still nobody cancelled: need to make this holiday not less Continue reading