Know that child rearing practices are among the most important cases, because the child is what is given on storageaddition to his parents, and his pure the heart is a precious jewel, on which there are no images. It is possible to draw anything, and it can be persuaded to anything, and if the child will accustom to the good and will teach you how to do it, he will grow from this and be happy in both worlds, and his reward will share with him his parents and all those who taught and raised him. If you teach a child to evil and not to give it attention, if it is not a man but an animal, he will be unfortunate and will die, and the burden of sin for that PontSeth is the one who was obliged to follow him, because Allah Almighty said: “O you who believe! Protect yourselves and your families from ognya…” (“Prohibition”, 6). No matter how hard the father to protect their child from the fire miRA, Continue reading
The intrinsic value. Love of self. Faith in yourself. Hope. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Conditional self-acceptance. Conditional acceptance of yourself. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Self-sufficiency and dependence.
The intrinsic value is sensual (emotional) relation of man to himself, emotional acceptance/rejection itself..
Worth begins in childhood emotional attitude of parents to the child.
The value can be of four types: unconditional acceptance, conditional acceptance, conditional acceptance of yourself, unconditional acceptance of yourself.
Unconditional acceptance of yourself includes:
When the child was brought up in the conditions of unconditional love, care, trust, security, he formed the unconditional acceptance of yourself.
Unconditional love (the love regardless of their actions, qualities, past, etc. – the man loves himself the way he is) . The man who certainly loves himself not to be ashamed of any of his negative qualities, and not be proud of the positive. It positively refers to itself regardless of various conditions (successes-failures, advantages, disadvantages, etc.). It is independent of the acceptance-rejection myself other (I love myself no matter, love or no love around me). With unconditional love, a man committed to change, as Hoca
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“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee”(ex. 20:12).
Why parents need to read, but not to love
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee” (ex. 20:12).
Although God is love, but in this commandment He says reverently. Respect is the highest form of love. You can love, but not to read, but there is no respect without love. Deference involves a deep respect and reverential gratitude. True reverence implies an appeal to “you”, it does not allow you to hurt people, raise your voice, especially raising your hand.
The opposite of respect is familiarity. Familiarity is a sin that occurs at every step. When a person behaves with parents, leaders, managers familiarly, cheeky, arrogant, he loses grace. “Like the precious oil upon the head, flowing down on the beard, the beard Aaronic flowing on the border of his garment” (PS. 132:2). Firs flowing from the head, so when we put the parents on the same level or even below it are losing a great many of the blessings that could only be obtained through the chain of command.
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