1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee”(ex. 20:12).
Why parents need to read, but not to love
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee” (ex. 20:12).
Although God is love, but in this commandment He says reverently. Respect is the highest form of love. You can love, but not to read, but there is no respect without love. Deference involves a deep respect and reverential gratitude. True reverence implies an appeal to “you”, it does not allow you to hurt people, raise your voice, especially raising your hand.
The opposite of respect is familiarity. Familiarity is a sin that occurs at every step. When a person behaves with parents, leaders, managers familiarly, cheeky, arrogant, he loses grace. “Like the precious oil upon the head, flowing down on the beard, the beard Aaronic flowing on the border of his garment” (PS. 132:2). Firs flowing from the head, so when we put the parents on the same level or even below it are losing a great many of the blessings that could only be obtained through the chain of command.
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Congratulations, you survived the “terrible turning age three!” Let’s hope that you will have enough understanding and energy to enjoy what is ahead of you and your preschooler. Psychologists call the age of three years and the next few years, the “magic age” – in part because now, as if by magic, your child finally learned to listen to you, and partly because this time the rapid development of your child. What skills should a child in 3 years?
Child at 3 years – height and weight
At this age the child is not as active as before. And yet, in 3 years the girls are gaining weight from 13 kg to 16 kg 700 grams. Boys can weigh from 13, 7 kg to 16 kg 100 grams. If the child’s weight falls short of these figures or a little more, do not worry. Worse, if the child’s growth is irregular: in one month he is rapidly recovering, then just as quickly lose weight. Then you need to consult an endocrinologist.
The growth of the child in 3 years varies from 90 cm to 1 meter. The boys are growing slightly faster than girls.
The child in 3 years it is better to grow and develop, you need to respect their sleep and rest. 3 years old baby should not sleep less than 11 hours at night, went to bed no later than 21.00. NAPs still nobody cancelled: need to make this holiday not less Continue reading