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Education punishment and education implications

 

People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.

Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.

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Explanation of how to educate children at an early age

 

Know that child rearing practices are among the most important cases, because the child is what is given on storage­addition to his parents, and his pure the heart is a precious jewel, on which there are no images. It is possible to draw anything, and it can be persuaded to anything, and if the child will accustom to the good and will teach you how to do it, he will grow from this and be happy in both worlds, and his reward will share with him his parents and all those who taught and raised him. If you teach a child to evil and not to give it attention, if it is not a man but an animal, he will be unfortunate and will die, and the burden of sin for that Pont­Seth is the one who was obliged to follow him, because Allah Almighty said: “O you who believe! Protect yourselves and your families from og­nya…” (“Prohibition”, 6). No matter how hard the father to protect their child from the fire mi­RA, Continue reading

Samotsennostj dependent

 

The intrinsic value. Love of self. Faith in yourself. Hope. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Conditional self-acceptance. Conditional acceptance of yourself. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Self-sufficiency and dependence.

The intrinsic value is sensual (emotional) relation of man to himself, emotional acceptance/rejection itself..

Worth begins in childhood emotional attitude of parents to the child.

The value can be of four types: unconditional acceptance, conditional acceptance, conditional acceptance of yourself, unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Unconditional acceptance of yourself includes:

When the child was brought up in the conditions of unconditional love, care, trust, security, he formed the unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Unconditional love (the love regardless of their actions, qualities, past, etc. – the man loves himself the way he is) . The man who certainly loves himself not to be ashamed of any of his negative qualities, and not be proud of the positive. It positively refers to itself regardless of various conditions (successes-failures, advantages, disadvantages, etc.). It is independent of the acceptance-rejection myself other (I love myself no matter, love or no love around me). With unconditional love, a man committed to change, as Hoca

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Education punishment and education implications
  People say: "learn from mistakes". It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural…

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System-vector psychology. Problem parent and adult child, or Why kids hate their parents?
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