People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
Education consequences means Continue reading
The preaching of the Church “Diamond”
“CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE”
1. DISAGREEMENT WITHOUT CONFLICT
People can disagree without conflict, but conflict often occurs because of disagreement. It’s not just a difference of opinion, but the inability to love when we disagree with someone.
Conflict – this is a situation where two people or more do not agree with the decision of whether a matter or diverge in the choice of priorities and this results in them failing to do the will of God to the people.
The root of the difference of opinion lies in the disagreement, ignorance, lack of communication. Sometimes a husband expects from his wife or children what they do not realize or they do not know how or can’t.
Paul and Barnabas had a disagreement because of Mark in Acts 15:36-41. This disagreement did not lead them to enmity and hatred. The problem was resolved through the formation of the second gospel team. This decision, in fact, accelerated the spread of the gospel. Paul and Barnabas did not get angry, did not cease to talk to each other and generally have something in common. None of them came out of the Christian Ministry, because “someone hurt him.” They both continued to serve the Lord.
Whenever a Church, organization or work for God nor begun, Continue reading
1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading