People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
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Someone will say — again the child’s upbringing . Indeed much has been written about it. But, even if there are many unresolved issues in many families, it means you can and should talk. In this article I will talk about the relationship between children and parents about the education of their own personality, pronounced. We will talk about the importance of establishing a friendly, trusting relationship, create in the family a positive atmosphere for your child in the future was able to successfully adapt to adult life.
We often forget that the education of the child — it is a matter of paramount importance. After all, whatever we’ve done in my life still, will ultimately prove to be the best of all our creations — these are our children.
What will be our best creation? We parents should never forget that our baby, who is only two years, or five years, or thirteen, will not always remain so, that the greater part of his life he will still be an adult, to surround him will be the same adults and outsiders.
From this we can draw only one conclusion: let your child to educate a person. Perhaps this is the main secret of parenting. Therefore, it is the upbringing of the child and can be called concern about its future.
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The sun rolled into the sunset, and peas with a dry crack all bounced and bounced off the wall and with a dispassionate clatter clattered to the floor… No, I’m fine! Just wanted to find even a drop of humor in the dismal picture illustration of one of the most famous maternal sayings: “like talking to the wall”. That’s only fair, had to sigh about their child? Had! Probably every mother at least once in his life uttered the phrase, in the hearts or as a result of fruitless thought. Why our children can’t hear us, don’t want to listen?
And really – why? This question is asked moms of kids of different ages. Sometimes a simple and clear answer lies on the surface. It may well be that small (or even not so little) stubborn is not stubborn, but just can’t hear us literally, physically, although the hearing had everything in order. Why? This is not a complete list of options. And ridiculously simple methods of solving the situation.
“Happy hours are not watching!”
And enthusiastic’t see anything around! Often the child is so passionate about the game, occupation, observing, thinking that actually can’t hear anything around, including the twenty-fifth mother’s Continue reading