To Maintain a good relationship with his daughter
  « I am 35 years old, divorced, live alone with my daughter 16 years. My mom still pronounces me that I don't dress like that, not everyone does it,…

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Why conflict mother and adult daughter - a man and a woman
  Adult daughters often live in conflict with the mother. One of them owns it, and says so explicitly, complains to her friends. And some prefer to keep silent and…

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Heroine Mother of 2, 5 cares about her son, whom the doctors gave no more than a year of life

“that day we took He to the hospital, but found nothing there, and we were sent home. The next morning we brought him to the hospital in a coma – he had a hemorrhage in the brain”, – says Oksana Kolesnikova . Artem’s mother.

Why healthy child suddenly fell ill, no one parents certainly not said. Voiced only diagnosis: “the effects of a brain hemorrhage with spastic tetraparesis, microcephaly and psychomotor retardation.”

Much later a “secret” Oksana said that the boy’s condition could deteriorate because of vaccination against hepatitis.

“We did two shots in the hospital, and everything was fine, and the third…”

150 seizures a day

In the court physicians on parents Artem was served. This, according to mom, had neither the strength nor the means, and mainly for the family at the time was the salvation of his son.

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Why parents need to read, not to love

“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee”(ex. 20:12).

Why parents need to read, but not to love

“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee” (ex. 20:12).

Although God is love, but in this commandment He says reverently. Respect is the highest form of love. You can love, but not to read, but there is no respect without love. Deference involves a deep respect and reverential gratitude. True reverence implies an appeal to “you”, it does not allow you to hurt people, raise your voice, especially raising your hand.

The opposite of respect is familiarity. Familiarity is a sin that occurs at every step. When a person behaves with parents, leaders, managers familiarly, cheeky, arrogant, he loses grace. “Like the precious oil upon the head, flowing down on the beard, the beard Aaronic flowing on the border of his garment” (PS. 132:2). Firs flowing from the head, so when we put the parents on the same level or even below it are losing a great many of the blessings that could only be obtained through the chain of command.

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Parental Divorce: the child after divorce

 

Well, if a baby has a full family and the world in it. However, inexorable statistics show that for every two prisoners of marriage, there is one divorce. And well, if it’s a family very young, not burdened with children and joint property. Otherwise, the whole world is collapsing for the child if mom and dad decided that they live apart much calmer. How to help your child?

The child is always sensitive to the fact that parents are getting divorced. On the other hand, from this test it can come out more Mature and powerful. Children of preschool and adolescent perceived parental divorce as one of the most destructive stress. At first they even deteriorating health, there is apathy. and sometimes aggression in behavior. The child after the divorce is experiencing the loss of a sense that he was safe . But the above can be avoided if parents will choose the right line of conduct. You can always negotiate humanly.

First of all, it is important to pay much attention to your child, that is at once convince him of its exceptional significance for the parents and not to let him have any sense of guilt.

Parents often ask themselves: how to tell the child about the divorce? Continue reading