When parents begin to over-pamper their children, these often become self-centered, rude and demanding personalities. From these traits not just to get rid of, spoiled brat turning into a selfish adult with a complete lack of self-control. But regardless of the age of your kid, it’s not too late to learn how to raise a child and help him become a good man.
Do not attempt to give the child all
Any parent wants to give their child the best of everything. This is natural, because we sincerely wish happiness to our children. In most cases, new toys, gifts and games are actually associated in children with happiness. But sometimes, the parents, understanding that they are not able to devote sufficient time to your child, his load with presents gifts and all other things that he wants.
It takes very little time and the baby gets used to the fact that you bring him everything on a silver platter. It turns out that some parents begin to lie to their child from birth, because the reality is – if you are not rich, your children will have to work hard your whole life to secure a comfortable existence.
If you want to properly raise a child and not to spoil it, try not to get caught up in a lie. When you give children everything they want, they grow up with Continue reading
1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading
Well, if a baby has a full family and the world in it. However, inexorable statistics show that for every two prisoners of marriage, there is one divorce. And well, if it’s a family very young, not burdened with children and joint property. Otherwise, the whole world is collapsing for the child if mom and dad decided that they live apart much calmer. How to help your child?
The child is always sensitive to the fact that parents are getting divorced. On the other hand, from this test it can come out more Mature and powerful. Children of preschool and adolescent perceived parental divorce as one of the most destructive stress. At first they even deteriorating health, there is apathy. and sometimes aggression in behavior. The child after the divorce is experiencing the loss of a sense that he was safe . But the above can be avoided if parents will choose the right line of conduct. You can always negotiate humanly.
First of all, it is important to pay much attention to your child, that is at once convince him of its exceptional significance for the parents and not to let him have any sense of guilt.
Parents often ask themselves: how to tell the child about the divorce? Continue reading