Children in a divorce
The issue of the residence of a minor child after divorce of parents is one of the most acute in divorce cases. Under the law, determining the place of residence of a child of separated parents should come to the common opinion and to Express it in the agreement. But this does not happen always, a large number of similar disputes settled by the courts. The court must consider the interests of children, the possibility for parents and desires and those of others.
Until recently, all these disputes by and large no point had. When stated in the legislation the equality of rights of both parents the majority of cases on the determination of the place of residence of the minor child after the divorce was decided in favor of the mother. And to prove anything there was no need, it was thought that raising children is too much for father’s burden, which take on it is possible in some extreme cases, only if there is no other option.
Basically when you divorce, the children remain under the court decision with his mother. Statistics show that in Russian families after a divorce, the children remain Continue reading
Someone will say — again the child’s upbringing . Indeed much has been written about it. But, even if there are many unresolved issues in many families, it means you can and should talk. In this article I will talk about the relationship between children and parents about the education of their own personality, pronounced. We will talk about the importance of establishing a friendly, trusting relationship, create in the family a positive atmosphere for your child in the future was able to successfully adapt to adult life.
We often forget that the education of the child — it is a matter of paramount importance. After all, whatever we’ve done in my life still, will ultimately prove to be the best of all our creations — these are our children.
What will be our best creation? We parents should never forget that our baby, who is only two years, or five years, or thirteen, will not always remain so, that the greater part of his life he will still be an adult, to surround him will be the same adults and outsiders.
From this we can draw only one conclusion: let your child to educate a person. Perhaps this is the main secret of parenting. Therefore, it is the upbringing of the child and can be called concern about its future.
And so, a child is born. He’s Continue reading
“Our son/daughter is lying! What do we do?” is a frequent complaint of parents in the office of a child psychologist. Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced. Others simply burn with shame for their child – lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!” the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
Why do children lie?
Children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence of the child’s Continue reading