The identity of the person, according to many psychologists, is formed in the first years of life. That is why it is so important when raising a child from 1 year, during active growth and rapid development, so the child received necessary for future life experiences, which will become the basis in his later life.
So moms and dads, especially the young who have virtually no experience of raising children, you must learn to be parents, gaining the necessary knowledge about the psychological and physiological peculiarities of the development of the baby.
Understanding as the basis of raising a child from 1 year
Most of the difficulties and mistakes of raising a child 1-5 years based on the fact that parents do not understand their children, believing it to be “reduced model” of an adult. Therefore, the parents are quite often frustrated by what is reasonable from their point of view the arguments of child neglect. On the other hand, the desire to make your life and the life of a child in accordance with modern requirements and pace, surrounding the baby different methods of learning at an early age with the use of computer technology does not always bring about the desired result.
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Good day! Want to philosophize a bit. I invite you to take part. We often hear that children — the flowers of life . Me so close that expression that I just say my favorite blog — “the Flowers of life “. But have you ever thought about what is common between a parent and a florist? Seemingly so different callings. However, the florist, and the parent is given into the hands of a small seed from which they must be grown in one case, useful, beautiful and healthy plant, and a holistic, healthy and happy person in a different.
What it takes to grow a beautiful flower? The seed (process, petiole, onion), fertile soil, light, warmth, water, food, care, attention, care and love. Largely whether this list is different from what parents must give the child?
Two adults “sow the seed”. The seed develops and is born little man. Man, in whom there is a part of both parents, as in the flower, in it’s in his genes already incorporated information, what he would be — man, boy or girl, a brunette or a blonde. And everything else it needs to obtain after the birth: fertile ground — family, living conditions, clothing, toys, food, education, attention, care, love.
The main difference in these professions, in my opinion, that planting flowers, florist, in principle, has the right Continue reading
All parents dream that their children were good, they were happy, and most parents are aware that children must carefully educate. However, many parents do not know how practically to take the case and proceed to the education of their children in a timely manner. The special challenge of parenting is that painful for parents and children mistakes sometimes become visible only after many years.
One of the common mistakes of parents is the lack of understanding of the need for education of habits. Let us understand what is a habit? When it arises? What are the ways of forming new habits? How to root encountered in children bad habits?
The first habit (need, desire to perform certain actions) arise in early childhood. Habit often occurs on the basis of one or another skill, the skill is like paving the way habit, and enhances its appearance. If the child has learned fluent and accurate reading, he may acquire the habit of regularly reading books, and in older age to follow the new fiction. Learning to wield a needle, iron, child easier will develop a habit to keep track of their clothing, to be always neat and clean.
On the other hand, many bad habits arise from incorrectly secured or bad is a learned skill. For example, it creates a habit incorrectly keep a spoon or fork a child who has not been trained to use them.
Habits can be useful, Continue reading