1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading
All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
Better to say: “I’ll still love it, but your behavior I don’t approve of”.
“Do what you want, I don’t care”
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Someone will say — again the child’s upbringing . Indeed much has been written about it. But, even if there are many unresolved issues in many families, it means you can and should talk. In this article I will talk about the relationship between children and parents about the education of their own personality, pronounced. We will talk about the importance of establishing a friendly, trusting relationship, create in the family a positive atmosphere for your child in the future was able to successfully adapt to adult life.
We often forget that the education of the child — it is a matter of paramount importance. After all, whatever we’ve done in my life still, will ultimately prove to be the best of all our creations — these are our children.
What will be our best creation? We parents should never forget that our baby, who is only two years, or five years, or thirteen, will not always remain so, that the greater part of his life he will still be an adult, to surround him will be the same adults and outsiders.
From this we can draw only one conclusion: let your child to educate a person. Perhaps this is the main secret of parenting. Therefore, it is the upbringing of the child and can be called concern about its future.
And so, a child is born. He’s Continue reading