System-vector psychology. Problem parent and adult child, or Why kids hate their parents?
  All people, beginning in adolescence, experiencing mixed feelings of rejection by parents. We want to be free and this desire sometimes comes right still to hate the people who…

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Parental Divorce: the child after divorce
  Well, if a baby has a full family and the world in it. However, inexorable statistics show that for every two prisoners of marriage, there is one divorce. And…

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Education punishment and education implications

 

People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.

Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.

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Heroine Mother of 2, 5 cares about her son, whom the doctors gave no more than a year of life

“that day we took He to the hospital, but found nothing there, and we were sent home. The next morning we brought him to the hospital in a coma – he had a hemorrhage in the brain”, – says Oksana Kolesnikova . Artem’s mother.

Why healthy child suddenly fell ill, no one parents certainly not said. Voiced only diagnosis: “the effects of a brain hemorrhage with spastic tetraparesis, microcephaly and psychomotor retardation.”

Much later a “secret” Oksana said that the boy’s condition could deteriorate because of vaccination against hepatitis.

“We did two shots in the hospital, and everything was fine, and the third…”

150 seizures a day

In the court physicians on parents Artem was served. This, according to mom, had neither the strength nor the means, and mainly for the family at the time was the salvation of his son.

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What skills should your child in 3 years?

 

Congratulations, you survived the “terrible turning age three!” Let’s hope that you will have enough understanding and energy to enjoy what is ahead of you and your preschooler. Psychologists call the age of three years and the next few years, the “magic age” – in part because now, as if by magic, your child finally learned to listen to you, and partly because this time the rapid development of your child. What skills should a child in 3 years?

Child at 3 years – height and weight

At this age the child is not as active as before. And yet, in 3 years the girls are gaining weight from 13 kg to 16 kg 700 grams. Boys can weigh from 13, 7 kg to 16 kg 100 grams. If the child’s weight falls short of these figures or a little more, do not worry. Worse, if the child’s growth is irregular: in one month he is rapidly recovering, then just as quickly lose weight. Then you need to consult an endocrinologist.

The growth of the child in 3 years varies from 90 cm to 1 meter. The boys are growing slightly faster than girls.

The child in 3 years it is better to grow and develop, you need to respect their sleep and rest. 3 years old baby should not sleep less than 11 hours at night, went to bed no later than 21.00. NAPs still nobody cancelled: need to make this holiday not less Continue reading

How to build relationships with mother-in-law, knowing its type?
  Very often it happens that the daughter-in-law doesn't know how to build relationships with mother-in-law. Whatever ways she tried to "satisfy" her, she will always find a reason, as…

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HABITS! HARMFUL OR HELPFUL?
  All parents dream that their children were good, they were happy, and most parents are aware that children must carefully educate. However, many parents do not know how practically…

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