People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
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The preaching of the Church “Diamond”
“CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE”
1. DISAGREEMENT WITHOUT CONFLICT
People can disagree without conflict, but conflict often occurs because of disagreement. It’s not just a difference of opinion, but the inability to love when we disagree with someone.
Conflict – this is a situation where two people or more do not agree with the decision of whether a matter or diverge in the choice of priorities and this results in them failing to do the will of God to the people.
The root of the difference of opinion lies in the disagreement, ignorance, lack of communication. Sometimes a husband expects from his wife or children what they do not realize or they do not know how or can’t.
Paul and Barnabas had a disagreement because of Mark in Acts 15:36-41. This disagreement did not lead them to enmity and hatred. The problem was resolved through the formation of the second gospel team. This decision, in fact, accelerated the spread of the gospel. Paul and Barnabas did not get angry, did not cease to talk to each other and generally have something in common. None of them came out of the Christian Ministry, because “someone hurt him.” They both continued to serve the Lord.
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Know that child rearing practices are among the most important cases, because the child is what is given on storageaddition to his parents, and his pure the heart is a precious jewel, on which there are no images. It is possible to draw anything, and it can be persuaded to anything, and if the child will accustom to the good and will teach you how to do it, he will grow from this and be happy in both worlds, and his reward will share with him his parents and all those who taught and raised him. If you teach a child to evil and not to give it attention, if it is not a man but an animal, he will be unfortunate and will die, and the burden of sin for that PontSeth is the one who was obliged to follow him, because Allah Almighty said: “O you who believe! Protect yourselves and your families from ognya…” (“Prohibition”, 6). No matter how hard the father to protect their child from the fire miRA, Continue reading