People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
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1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading
What is the secret of building good sustainable home? The secret is in the correct the beginning – the Foundation. A house without a basement in a couple of rain drops. Built the walls is not something to stand on, they will crack and start the movement. Alas, the moving wall is a bad thing for a good home.
As builders, we also must know the importance of the beginning of building relationships. At random the Foundation pour is not necessary, you must cedola themselves to decide what kind of relationship will build. Despite the desired relationship, it is very important to set a goal that you are pursuing.
When we consider the different relationships and how to incinnati, we define exactly what it means every interaction (if friendship, we are only talking about friendship here and no other senses do not play).
How to start to be friends?
“A friend is known in trouble” let’s take this phrase as the basis. Never try to become your friend and keep them. Do not impose your friendship because it would be similar to the prosecution and would be very annoying to your friend. Be yourself, live your life, but wonder about life and the person for whom you want to become a friend. If possible, Continue reading