“that day we took He to the hospital, but found nothing there, and we were sent home. The next morning we brought him to the hospital in a coma – he had a hemorrhage in the brain”, – says Oksana Kolesnikova . Artem’s mother.
Why healthy child suddenly fell ill, no one parents certainly not said. Voiced only diagnosis: “the effects of a brain hemorrhage with spastic tetraparesis, microcephaly and psychomotor retardation.”
Much later a “secret” Oksana said that the boy’s condition could deteriorate because of vaccination against hepatitis.
“We did two shots in the hospital, and everything was fine, and the third…”
150 seizures a day
In the court physicians on parents Artem was served. This, according to mom, had neither the strength nor the means, and mainly for the family at the time was the salvation of his son.
Two weeks the boy was in intensive care and then was transferred to the Department for premature Continue reading
1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading
The intrinsic value. Love of self. Faith in yourself. Hope. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Conditional self-acceptance. Conditional acceptance of yourself. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Self-sufficiency and dependence.
The intrinsic value is sensual (emotional) relation of man to himself, emotional acceptance/rejection itself..
Worth begins in childhood emotional attitude of parents to the child.
The value can be of four types: unconditional acceptance, conditional acceptance, conditional acceptance of yourself, unconditional acceptance of yourself.
Unconditional acceptance of yourself includes:
When the child was brought up in the conditions of unconditional love, care, trust, security, he formed the unconditional acceptance of yourself.
Unconditional love (the love regardless of their actions, qualities, past, etc. – the man loves himself the way he is) . The man who certainly loves himself not to be ashamed of any of his negative qualities, and not be proud of the positive. It positively refers to itself regardless of various conditions (successes-failures, advantages, disadvantages, etc.). It is independent of the acceptance-rejection myself other (I love myself no matter, love or no love around me). With unconditional love, a man committed to change, as Hoca
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