People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
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This material came in the mail, after reading it I realized it must be placed if not in the content of our website but to try to convey to the masses, to open the eyes of sleeping and not seeing the obvious!
In the underpass near the metro station sits a woman of indeterminate age.
Pass in stride and thirty, and twenty-three, and forty-two. Hair women’s matted and dirty, his head lowered in sorrow.
Before the woman spat on the floor transition is a bag. In the bag of compassionate citizens throwing money. And would not cast, right at the hands of a woman holding
significant “argument” in favor of the fact that her money is necessary. In the hands of women sleeping child two years. He’s in a dirty hat, once white, in a sports suit. Transition – the place is quite busy. And flows an endless stream of human crowd, and rings a small thing in the bag, and the rustle of banknotes.
I walked past a woman about a month. I guessed who the money donated numerous passers-by. How to say how much is written, but our people like this – compassionate.
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“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee”(ex. 20:12).
Why parents need to read, but not to love
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee” (ex. 20:12).
Although God is love, but in this commandment He says reverently. Respect is the highest form of love. You can love, but not to read, but there is no respect without love. Deference involves a deep respect and reverential gratitude. True reverence implies an appeal to “you”, it does not allow you to hurt people, raise your voice, especially raising your hand.
The opposite of respect is familiarity. Familiarity is a sin that occurs at every step. When a person behaves with parents, leaders, managers familiarly, cheeky, arrogant, he loses grace. “Like the precious oil upon the head, flowing down on the beard, the beard Aaronic flowing on the border of his garment” (PS. 132:2). Firs flowing from the head, so when we put the parents on the same level or even below it are losing a great many of the blessings that could only be obtained through the chain of command.
God is the CREATOR of the universe. Father, mother Continue reading