People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
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Well, if a baby has a full family and the world in it. However, inexorable statistics show that for every two prisoners of marriage, there is one divorce. And well, if it’s a family very young, not burdened with children and joint property. Otherwise, the whole world is collapsing for the child if mom and dad decided that they live apart much calmer. How to help your child?
The child is always sensitive to the fact that parents are getting divorced. On the other hand, from this test it can come out more Mature and powerful. Children of preschool and adolescent perceived parental divorce as one of the most destructive stress. At first they even deteriorating health, there is apathy. and sometimes aggression in behavior. The child after the divorce is experiencing the loss of a sense that he was safe . But the above can be avoided if parents will choose the right line of conduct. You can always negotiate humanly.
First of all, it is important to pay much attention to your child, that is at once convince him of its exceptional significance for the parents and not to let him have any sense of guilt.
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Socio-psychological mechanisms of communication: Communication creates a number of unique socio-psychological
Communication creates a number of unique social and psychological mechanisms through which is formed the social psyche.
Infection is a special method of exposure, a certain way of uniting large groups of people. The phenomenon of infection has diverse manifestations, such as dance, sports gambling, situatii panic, religious ecstasy, etc.
Infection is unconscious, spontaneous form of inclusion of the individual in certain mental States, as well as the total empathy of the mental state large group
people at the same time.
Contamination is the transfer of mental attitude, with a strong emotional charge, the intensity of feelings and passions. The basis of the occurrence of infection — emotional
the impact in terms of direct contact.
The source of infection is the carrier of the emotional charge the inductor. He passes the charge, which then is magnified in the interaction channels. Occurs
mental background contamination. He is in direct proportion to the size of audience and the extent of installation of the temperature of the inductor. As this emotional state occurs Continue reading