Child 3-6 years engaged in different activities that enrich its knowledge about objects and their properties. The preschooler increasingly independently selects and applies various methods and techniques of solving the problems facing practical problems. A special study of the mentality of a preschooler showed that at this age stage is the restructuring of relations practical steps to mental. Along with the transition of the process of thinking in the “internal plan” (interiorization) the rearrangement practice. At 3-6 year olds make of planar figures on the background (garden, lawn, room) picture (A. A. Lublin, Z. S. Reshko), to repair the spoiled toy (A. A. Lublin, Z. A. Hankova), to choose a weapon to get candy from the vase (I. M. Zhukov), or to keep on the table with the inclined surface of the ball (A. A. Weiger), the researchers obtained data allow to draw some General conclusions.
Younger preschoolers (3-4 years) do not always use the action adequate to the task . The children immediately begin to effective solution of the problem, sometimes making random, “fumbling” of the sample; moving figures on the background and connect them receive unexpected for themselves combinations. It was therefore with great surprise and pleasure three-year-old Continue reading
1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading
Well, if a baby has a full family and the world in it. However, inexorable statistics show that for every two prisoners of marriage, there is one divorce. And well, if it’s a family very young, not burdened with children and joint property. Otherwise, the whole world is collapsing for the child if mom and dad decided that they live apart much calmer. How to help your child?
The child is always sensitive to the fact that parents are getting divorced. On the other hand, from this test it can come out more Mature and powerful. Children of preschool and adolescent perceived parental divorce as one of the most destructive stress. At first they even deteriorating health, there is apathy. and sometimes aggression in behavior. The child after the divorce is experiencing the loss of a sense that he was safe . But the above can be avoided if parents will choose the right line of conduct. You can always negotiate humanly.
First of all, it is important to pay much attention to your child, that is at once convince him of its exceptional significance for the parents and not to let him have any sense of guilt.
Parents often ask themselves: how to tell the child about the divorce? Continue reading