When parents begin to over-pamper their children, these often become self-centered, rude and demanding personalities. From these traits not just to get rid of, spoiled brat turning into a selfish adult with a complete lack of self-control. But regardless of the age of your kid, it’s not too late to learn how to raise a child and help him become a good man.
Do not attempt to give the child all
Any parent wants to give their child the best of everything. This is natural, because we sincerely wish happiness to our children. In most cases, new toys, gifts and games are actually associated in children with happiness. But sometimes, the parents, understanding that they are not able to devote sufficient time to your child, his load with presents gifts and all other things that he wants.
It takes very little time and the baby gets used to the fact that you bring him everything on a silver platter. It turns out that some parents begin to lie to their child from birth, because the reality is – if you are not rich, your children will have to work hard your whole life to secure a comfortable existence.
If you want to properly raise a child and not to spoil it, try not to get caught up in a lie. When you give children everything they want, they grow up with Continue reading
Child 3-6 years engaged in different activities that enrich its knowledge about objects and their properties. The preschooler increasingly independently selects and applies various methods and techniques of solving the problems facing practical problems. A special study of the mentality of a preschooler showed that at this age stage is the restructuring of relations practical steps to mental. Along with the transition of the process of thinking in the “internal plan” (interiorization) the rearrangement practice. At 3-6 year olds make of planar figures on the background (garden, lawn, room) picture (A. A. Lublin, Z. S. Reshko), to repair the spoiled toy (A. A. Lublin, Z. A. Hankova), to choose a weapon to get candy from the vase (I. M. Zhukov), or to keep on the table with the inclined surface of the ball (A. A. Weiger), the researchers obtained data allow to draw some General conclusions.
Younger preschoolers (3-4 years) do not always use the action adequate to the task . The children immediately begin to effective solution of the problem, sometimes making random, “fumbling” of the sample; moving figures on the background and connect them receive unexpected for themselves combinations. It was therefore with great surprise and pleasure three-year-old Continue reading
1. During adolescence, children begin to appreciate the lives of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, discuss the behavior, actions, appearance, moms and dads, teachers, friends. And constantly compare. At some point the result of this comparison will affect your relationship with your son or daughter. It can be for you both pleasant and unpleasant. So, if you do not want to lose face, start to prepare for this assessment as early as possible
2. The main thing in your relationship with your child – understanding. To install it, you must take the initiative and not hold grudges. Should not how to go on about the momentary wishes of the child and to always oppose them. But if you cannot or do not consider it necessary to fulfill the wish of a son or daughter, you need to explain why. And in General, talk more with their children, share their work, discuss their cases with them, a toy or training, know their interests and concerns, friends and teachers. Children need to feel that you love them, that in any situation they can count on your advice and help and not be afraid of ridicule or neglect.
Maintain children’s confidence in themselves, in their abilities, that even with certain flaws (which everyone has) they have their undeniable advantages. Strategy parents to form a child’s Continue reading