Education punishment and education implications
  People say: "learn from mistakes". It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural…

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How to raise a child and not mess it up?
  When parents begin to over-pamper their children, these often become self-centered, rude and demanding personalities. From these traits not just to get rid of, spoiled brat turning into a…

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Samotsennostj dependent

 

The intrinsic value. Love of self. Faith in yourself. Hope. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Conditional self-acceptance. Conditional acceptance of yourself. Unconditional acceptance of yourself. Self-sufficiency and dependence.

The intrinsic value is sensual (emotional) relation of man to himself, emotional acceptance/rejection itself..

Worth begins in childhood emotional attitude of parents to the child.

The value can be of four types: unconditional acceptance, conditional acceptance, conditional acceptance of yourself, unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Unconditional acceptance of yourself includes:

When the child was brought up in the conditions of unconditional love, care, trust, security, he formed the unconditional acceptance of yourself.

Unconditional love (the love regardless of their actions, qualities, past, etc. – the man loves himself the way he is) . The man who certainly loves himself not to be ashamed of any of his negative qualities, and not be proud of the positive. It positively refers to itself regardless of various conditions (successes-failures, advantages, disadvantages, etc.). It is independent of the acceptance-rejection myself other (I love myself no matter, love or no love around me). With unconditional love, a man committed to change, as Hoca

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How to start a relationship with the opposite sex?

 

What is the secret of building good sustainable home? The secret is in the correct the beginning – the Foundation. A house without a basement in a couple of rain drops. Built the walls is not something to stand on, they will crack and start the movement. Alas, the moving wall is a bad thing for a good home.

As builders, we also must know the importance of the beginning of building relationships. At random the Foundation pour is not necessary, you must cedola themselves to decide what kind of relationship will build. Despite the desired relationship, it is very important to set a goal that you are pursuing.

When we consider the different relationships and how to incinnati, we define exactly what it means every interaction (if friendship, we are only talking about friendship here and no other senses do not play).

How to start to be friends?

“A friend is known in trouble” let’s take this phrase as the basis. Never try to become your friend and keep them. Do not impose your friendship because it would be similar to the prosecution and would be very annoying to your friend. Be yourself, live your life, but wonder about life and the person for whom you want to become a friend. If possible, Continue reading

Errors in the education of children

 

All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.

In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?

A promise not to love

“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”

The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!

Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.

Better to say: “I’ll still love it, but your behavior I don’t approve of”.

Indifference

“Do what you want, I don’t care”

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