CHILDREN OUR JOY

The education of the child from 1 year – means, methods, techniques
  The identity of the person, according to many psychologists, is formed in the first years of life. That is why it is so important when raising a child from…

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System-vector psychology. Problem parent and adult child, or Why kids hate their parents?
  All people, beginning in adolescence, experiencing mixed feelings of rejection by parents. We want to be free and this desire sometimes comes right still to hate the people who…

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System-vector psychology. Problem parent and adult child, or Why kids hate their parents?

 

All people, beginning in adolescence, experiencing mixed feelings of rejection by parents. We want to be free and this desire sometimes comes right still to hate the people who gave us life . Of course, we are grateful to them. Of course, we understand that we owe them. Of course, we love them. But…

“I don’t know why, but I hate my mother. I have always loved her and now can’t cope with this feeling. I don’t even hate the mother, and their duty to go to it. It so happened that from the age of 16 I live far away, but every year on vacation I visited her for 2-3 weeks and loved these trips. Now I’m already 50 years old, my mother is 75. She can’t be alone, and I am obliged very often to her. While I’m far from it, I really feel for her, her old age and infirmity, but as soon as you come to it, my mental problems start – I get mad every word she said to me, I hate her behavior .

There are tons of it to nothing, for example, just feels sorry for me or advises that the best way to do, and I’m right in the shower all over. Directly the brutality of what is inside. Do my children hate me like I hate my mom? I’m scared of this feeling, I’m scared Continue reading

Travel with kids: fun, relaxed and comfortable

 

Most of us try to arrive at the airport in advance: first, no one wants to be late for your flight, and secondly, there will be time to wander through Duty Free or have a snack in the cafe while waiting for your flight, or maybe just to walk around the terminal or to watch the planes on the ramp waiting for their departure. And if an adult can easily find how to pass the time, and even with the benefit of themselves, what to do travelling children? They start to act up, because either tired, thirsty, eating or sleeping, or they are simply bored from doing nothing.

But not as bad, it appears. All saw the signs at the airport “mother and child”? Until recently, to my shame, I imagined the mother and child in room 2 at 1.5 with a changing table, trash can and sink. I somehow think that the majority thinks so, too. But what I saw at the capital airport “Domodedovo” has allowed me to take another look at travel with kids – travel with comfort.

For passengers travelling with children in the Moscow airport “Domodedovo” opened the mother and child Room, Children’s entertainment center, Children’s play room, located in the galleries of departure of domestic and international lines. Data services for passengers with Continue reading

The Role of the family in nurturing the skills of cultural behavior children

 

The ability to behave in society is very important for the occurrence of the child in this society. Folk wisdom says: “clothes make the man”. And it concerns not only the appearance, but also of human behavior. What is the “clothes” should be the child to the surrounding people met with the good of his parish in the world?

To teach the culture of behavior must practically from the cradle. A small child we teach, and if they are persistent and patient, basic habits of good conduct, they will be able to lay even in childhood. Infant behavior culture is expressed in basic grooming and hygiene.

Unpleasant to look at the kid, who, swaggering over parents, throws hands in your food. Often parents or relatives still lovely: “What a pickle!” And mischief will continue in the same spirit. Where then may receive a cultural habit to eat at the table? As soon as the child begins to eat with a spoon, it is necessary to accustom to do it right, and not rely on “random”, that with age he will do everything right. Will not work Continue reading

How to build relationships with mother-in-law, knowing its type?

 

Very often it happens that the daughter-in-law doesn’t know how to build relationships with mother-in-law. Whatever ways she tried to “satisfy” her, she will always find a reason, as she seems to complain about her daughter in law.

To learn to build relations with the mother of your spouse, avoiding sharp corners, you need to first define what nature had given her nature and what type of mother she is. And then revise your “willingness” and the desire to establish these relationships.

7 types of mother-in-laws

How to find a common language with mother-in-law “the Owner”? This is the most difficult of all possible the options below, because the chances to please mother in law like this in anything is virtually nil. It is, as a rule, a single mother, bringing up her child alone, without male support and attention from the stronger sex, so for this mother’s joy in her unsettled life is his own son, which she doesn’t want to see anyone.

Any future wife initially summons outright hostility. For her only son — it’s her private property. And the marriage of her child she sees as an encroachment on its treasure.

What you do in this situation?

The first option — wait for the time when the mother-in-law will change his position and stop harassing You, reconsider Continue reading

Live and work in the Czech Republic

to Begin with, many people there is sometimes a desire to move from their country, their city, where studied, the seemingly all – to some more prosperous, quiet, cozy Western country.

Immediately any ideas of where to throw their strength, energy and will begin to implement the plans. America is too far, Germany is difficult and impossible to get, even to the Germans with their exact laws and language, Denmark is too small for the Russian people, Italy is too noisy, so what to choose.

And, about a miracle, we recall that there is on earth a heavenly place on earth where there are castles, old galleries, princes, princesses, tasty food – CZECH Republic or CZECHOSLOVAKIA, as we know from the old movies.

Thus, the aim of almost selected, of course, the Czech Republic is a country located in Central Europe, in the Schengen space, included in the NATO Alliance with a professional army, the criminal situation is stable, quiet, supportive environment for medium-sized businesses and affordable real estate, and most importantly the Czech language, because it is similar to Russian! it means that we found a country where we want to move, so we want change!

About personal experience. We are an ordinary family, middle-aged, live in Prague and develop their own business in the Czech Continue reading

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Why children lie and what to do if your child is cheating?
  "Our son/daughter is lying! What do we do?" is a frequent complaint of parents in the office of a child psychologist. Parents wonder why their child is lying, because…

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