« I am 35 years old, divorced, live alone with my daughter 16 years. My mom still pronounces me that I don’t dress like that, not everyone does it, why she didn’t call, why not come and after a couple years I could be a grandmother. Amazingly, I often place my daughter claims that for many years not in my heart to forgive his mother. How to deal with this?” To Svetlana .).
From love to hate
” One father is worth a hundred teachers. But one real mother is worth hundreds of fathers” – says the ancient Indian wisdom . I want to mention: I will not in this essay to consider a successful relationship of mother and daughter, their love, friendship, mutual affection. Each of us can cite many examples of the incredible, incomparable love of a mother to a daughter and a mother’s sacrifice for the welfare of his girls. It is known that the strongest love in the world – the love of the parent, it is often blind, sometimes even something like an animal instinct.
However, psychologists have to state the fact that so spoil the life of her child, how could a mother, who can rarely. Mothers sometimes do not realize that there must come a time when a girl should be released, Continue reading
All people, beginning in adolescence, experiencing mixed feelings of rejection by parents. We want to be free and this desire sometimes comes right still to hate the people who gave us life . Of course, we are grateful to them. Of course, we understand that we owe them. Of course, we love them. But…
“I don’t know why, but I hate my mother. I have always loved her and now can’t cope with this feeling. I don’t even hate the mother, and their duty to go to it. It so happened that from the age of 16 I live far away, but every year on vacation I visited her for 2-3 weeks and loved these trips. Now I’m already 50 years old, my mother is 75. She can’t be alone, and I am obliged very often to her. While I’m far from it, I really feel for her, her old age and infirmity, but as soon as you come to it, my mental problems start – I get mad every word she said to me, I hate her behavior .
There are tons of it to nothing, for example, just feels sorry for me or advises that the best way to do, and I’m right in the shower all over. Directly the brutality of what is inside. Do my children hate me like I hate my mom? I’m scared of this feeling, I’m scared Continue reading
to Begin with, many people there is sometimes a desire to move from their country, their city, where studied, the seemingly all – to some more prosperous, quiet, cozy Western country.
Immediately any ideas of where to throw their strength, energy and will begin to implement the plans. America is too far, Germany is difficult and impossible to get, even to the Germans with their exact laws and language, Denmark is too small for the Russian people, Italy is too noisy, so what to choose.
And, about a miracle, we recall that there is on earth a heavenly place on earth where there are castles, old galleries, princes, princesses, tasty food – CZECH Republic or CZECHOSLOVAKIA, as we know from the old movies.
Thus, the aim of almost selected, of course, the Czech Republic is a country located in Central Europe, in the Schengen space, included in the NATO Alliance with a professional army, the criminal situation is stable, quiet, supportive environment for medium-sized businesses and affordable real estate, and most importantly the Czech language, because it is similar to Russian! it means that we found a country where we want to move, so we want change!
About personal experience. We are an ordinary family, middle-aged, live in Prague and develop their own business in the Czech Continue reading