The identity of the person, according to many psychologists, is formed in the first years of life. That is why it is so important when raising a child from 1 year, during active growth and rapid development, so the child received necessary for future life experiences, which will become the basis in his later life.
So moms and dads, especially the young who have virtually no experience of raising children, you must learn to be parents, gaining the necessary knowledge about the psychological and physiological peculiarities of the development of the baby.
Understanding as the basis of raising a child from 1 year
Most of the difficulties and mistakes of raising a child 1-5 years based on the fact that parents do not understand their children, believing it to be “reduced model” of an adult. Therefore, the parents are quite often frustrated by what is reasonable from their point of view the arguments of child neglect. On the other hand, the desire to make your life and the life of a child in accordance with modern requirements and pace, surrounding the baby different methods of learning at an early age with the use of computer technology does not always bring about the desired result.
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The sun rolled into the sunset, and peas with a dry crack all bounced and bounced off the wall and with a dispassionate clatter clattered to the floor… No, I’m fine! Just wanted to find even a drop of humor in the dismal picture illustration of one of the most famous maternal sayings: “like talking to the wall”. That’s only fair, had to sigh about their child? Had! Probably every mother at least once in his life uttered the phrase, in the hearts or as a result of fruitless thought. Why our children can’t hear us, don’t want to listen?
And really – why? This question is asked moms of kids of different ages. Sometimes a simple and clear answer lies on the surface. It may well be that small (or even not so little) stubborn is not stubborn, but just can’t hear us literally, physically, although the hearing had everything in order. Why? This is not a complete list of options. And ridiculously simple methods of solving the situation.
“Happy hours are not watching!”
And enthusiastic’t see anything around! Often the child is so passionate about the game, occupation, observing, thinking that actually can’t hear anything around, including the twenty-fifth mother’s Continue reading
Learn how to talk with children — easy: requires some forethought and practice. You will be able to do it, and therefore will be able to rally your family and to prepare the child for independent problem-solving, which it will be set for life.
Today we will talk about how to raise the child’s self-confidence. Self-esteem, like love, is not amenable to a simple and accurate description. But many people have commented that more confident, when there is reason to be proud. They are convinced that they appreciate, despite its shortcomings, if others know what they are capable of, for example, to finish a difficult task.
How often your child feels worthless, stupid, “wrong”? What you pay attention when you praise your child? Some parents celebrate ability and results, others – perseverance, diligence, and effort in achieving the result.
What statements make the child more self-confident? The children praised for ability, fear of failure more than the ones being praised for what they make a lot of effort when meeting with difficulties. And, in addition, children who are praised for hard work and diligence, Continue reading