What are the main mistakes of raising children? To the education of children must be approached correctly and responsibly. Why? It is in childhood lays certain psychological problems, the solution of which will have to face an adult.There is even a nine commandments in the upbringing of the child, which is recommended by psychologists. But some parents believe that using the strongest cry you can teach your child something to do. But what happens when the kid sees an angry parent? He is very frightened, becomes uncertain. Cry better not to use, because the baby should grow up in constant fear. It is worth considering the fact that the kid whose parents for any reason fall into the Creek, already used to this behavior of the parents and may even try to provoke parental screaming.
Let’s save the crumbs from excessive attention of a stranger
Why a child is naughty. Baby tantrums are designed for the attention of the public. But if there is nobody to look at it – and we have no reason to cry. For example, if the baby starts unrestrained cry, then your best bet is just to leave the room to the toddler realized that tantrums show no one.
What are typical mistakes of raising a child? If You now unstable mood and you feel that You can yell at someone, just take a slow breath and calm down. Sometimes the baby is especially Continue reading
« I am 35 years old, divorced, live alone with my daughter 16 years. My mom still pronounces me that I don’t dress like that, not everyone does it, why she didn’t call, why not come and after a couple years I could be a grandmother. Amazingly, I often place my daughter claims that for many years not in my heart to forgive his mother. How to deal with this?” To Svetlana .).
From love to hate
” One father is worth a hundred teachers. But one real mother is worth hundreds of fathers” – says the ancient Indian wisdom . I want to mention: I will not in this essay to consider a successful relationship of mother and daughter, their love, friendship, mutual affection. Each of us can cite many examples of the incredible, incomparable love of a mother to a daughter and a mother’s sacrifice for the welfare of his girls. It is known that the strongest love in the world – the love of the parent, it is often blind, sometimes even something like an animal instinct.
However, psychologists have to state the fact that so spoil the life of her child, how could a mother, who can rarely. Mothers sometimes do not realize that there must come a time when a girl should be released, Continue reading
All people, beginning in adolescence, experiencing mixed feelings of rejection by parents. We want to be free and this desire sometimes comes right still to hate the people who gave us life . Of course, we are grateful to them. Of course, we understand that we owe them. Of course, we love them. But…
“I don’t know why, but I hate my mother. I have always loved her and now can’t cope with this feeling. I don’t even hate the mother, and their duty to go to it. It so happened that from the age of 16 I live far away, but every year on vacation I visited her for 2-3 weeks and loved these trips. Now I’m already 50 years old, my mother is 75. She can’t be alone, and I am obliged very often to her. While I’m far from it, I really feel for her, her old age and infirmity, but as soon as you come to it, my mental problems start – I get mad every word she said to me, I hate her behavior .
There are tons of it to nothing, for example, just feels sorry for me or advises that the best way to do, and I’m right in the shower all over. Directly the brutality of what is inside. Do my children hate me like I hate my mom? I’m scared of this feeling, I’m scared Continue reading