People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.
Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.
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This material came in the mail, after reading it I realized it must be placed if not in the content of our website but to try to convey to the masses, to open the eyes of sleeping and not seeing the obvious!
In the underpass near the metro station sits a woman of indeterminate age.
Pass in stride and thirty, and twenty-three, and forty-two. Hair women’s matted and dirty, his head lowered in sorrow.
Before the woman spat on the floor transition is a bag. In the bag of compassionate citizens throwing money. And would not cast, right at the hands of a woman holding
significant “argument” in favor of the fact that her money is necessary. In the hands of women sleeping child two years. He’s in a dirty hat, once white, in a sports suit. Transition – the place is quite busy. And flows an endless stream of human crowd, and rings a small thing in the bag, and the rustle of banknotes.
I walked past a woman about a month. I guessed who the money donated numerous passers-by. How to say how much is written, but our people like this – compassionate.
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The preaching of the Church “Diamond”
“CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE”
1. DISAGREEMENT WITHOUT CONFLICT
People can disagree without conflict, but conflict often occurs because of disagreement. It’s not just a difference of opinion, but the inability to love when we disagree with someone.
Conflict – this is a situation where two people or more do not agree with the decision of whether a matter or diverge in the choice of priorities and this results in them failing to do the will of God to the people.
The root of the difference of opinion lies in the disagreement, ignorance, lack of communication. Sometimes a husband expects from his wife or children what they do not realize or they do not know how or can’t.
Paul and Barnabas had a disagreement because of Mark in Acts 15:36-41. This disagreement did not lead them to enmity and hatred. The problem was resolved through the formation of the second gospel team. This decision, in fact, accelerated the spread of the gospel. Paul and Barnabas did not get angry, did not cease to talk to each other and generally have something in common. None of them came out of the Christian Ministry, because “someone hurt him.” They both continued to serve the Lord.
Whenever a Church, organization or work for God nor begun, Continue reading