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Education punishment and education implications
  People say: "learn from mistakes". It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural…

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Education punishment and education implications

 

People say: “learn from mistakes”. It seems easier, but it took a long time to the character of the child was formed on the principle of education through natural and logical consequences. For example, because of its eternal nesobrannosti the boy returned home without his favorite toy — now the whole rest of the summer will take on walk old. Let him learn to watch your own stuff, because that beautiful truck in the shop is just not there. This is the reality. The logical impact of the situation on the child more than if my parents scolded him, called him a wimp, bookrules about the high cost of lost things and in the end reluctantly bought a new expensive toy. What will you learn in this reaction adults? At best, the fact that parents are responsible for everything. It is known that the accusations, swearing, notation or cry on many children do not apply.

Education logical or natural consequences could significantly defuse the relationship between parents and children. Because often in a family there is a clear confrontation, and it seems that the only question is who will win: mother, driving slow child, or a child who by his deliberate slowness wants to attract her attention. In the end, both lose, because at the time of the dispute disappears harmony of their relationship.

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Why is SLEEPING child

 

This material came in the mail, after reading it I realized it must be placed if not in the content of our website but to try to convey to the masses, to open the eyes of sleeping and not seeing the obvious!

In the underpass near the metro station sits a woman of indeterminate age.

Pass in stride and thirty, and twenty-three, and forty-two. Hair women’s matted and dirty, his head lowered in sorrow.

Before the woman spat on the floor transition is a bag. In the bag of compassionate citizens throwing money. And would not cast, right at the hands of a woman holding

significant “argument” in favor of the fact that her money is necessary. In the hands of women sleeping child two years. He’s in a dirty hat, once white, in a sports suit. Transition – the place is quite busy. And flows an endless stream of human crowd, and rings a small thing in the bag, and the rustle of banknotes.

I walked past a woman about a month. I guessed who the money donated numerous passers-by. How to say how much is written, but our people like this – compassionate.

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Why conflict mother and adult daughter – a man and a woman

 

Adult daughters often live in conflict with the mother. One of them owns it, and says so explicitly, complains to her friends. And some prefer to keep silent and pretend that the relationship she’s fine. But the fact remains, and psychologists know about it.

Adult daughters often live in conflict with the mother. One of them owns it, and says so explicitly, complains to her friends. And some prefer to keep silent and pretend that the relationship she’s fine. But the fact remains, and psychologists know about it.

A letter without an envelope

Yes, it happens that mom is so annoying daughter (as they say themselves daughters “hate”), which irritates her every word, any manifestation. The mother becomes the lightning rod, the person who is to blame for all the troubles.

“most Likely, this situation has been continuing from childhood: observations, tips, which you do not ask, no common ground, ” explains psychologist Irina Sitnikova. — You already lost hope to shed more light, to change, to reach, to get something but advice: support the pride of the mother, praise, sympathy. When such situation has not changed Continue reading

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